Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples: Third Edition
'Getting the Love You Want' unveils the secrets to transforming relationships through deep emotional connection and effective communication. Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt offer practical exercises designed to help couples understand their unmet childhood needs, paving the way to true healing and intimacy. The latest edition features new insights and tools for addressing common relationship conflicts and enhancing partnership dynamics. Discover how to break free from destructive patterns and create a nurturing bond filled with love and acceptance. This guide is a revolutionary roadmap for anyone seeking to revitalize their romantic life and foster lasting happiness.
By Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD
Published: 2019
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