How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen

In "How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen," authors Joanna Faber and Julie King unveil the art of effective communication with young children, transforming daily interactions into opportunities for connection. They share practical strategies and insightful anecdotes to help parents understand the mind of a child, making it easier to navigate tantrums, requests, and questions. With a focus on empathy and respect, this guide empowers caregivers to foster collaboration and mutual understanding. Each chapter introduces relatable scenarios and proven techniques to turn frustration into constructive dialogue. Unlock the secrets to building a more harmonious relationship with the little ones in your life and discover a new world of joyful communication!

By Joanna Faber, Julie King

Published: 2017

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